Why steal Dex?

[Jim Kennedy]

Saw the news story that Jennicam was going to end. Came across some of the
history and the controversy of Jenni stealing her friend's boy friend. This
type of behavior is more common than one would think. In general woman view
relationships as very important. In fact the relationship is often more
important than the quality of the relationship. Unlike guys, women will
express their anger via relationship manipulation. It is also a way to
control other people. Usually this type of female aggression starts before
high school, peaks in high school and becomes less prevalent after college.
So for Jeni to steal her "friend's" boyfriend, have sex with him right in
front of her.(basically on the web, in a house right next to her "friend")
This behavior is typical , albeit magnified, female bullying. (most
people don't do things like that on that scale)


My guess is that Jenni's relationship with her friend has ended, Dex is
tired of being an exhibitionist. He probably loves her and told her to turn
off the cameras or I'm moving out.

For more information on female aggression read Odd Girl Out by Rachel
Simmons.

Jim

[diana lyster]

i've wondered about that myself. what amazes me the most is that jenni
seemed absolutely impervious to the pain she caused her friend,
courtney, instead seeming eager to grind her high heel into poor
courtney's back. i seriously question the type of personality who is
capable of such a thing.

also, dex must have loved courtney at some point. how could he care
for courtney and then jump into actively hurting her, all the while
enjoying this bliss of 'love' which jenni claimed could be felt
throughout the internet? (she said something to that effect, anyway.)

i would describe jenni as being egocentric, narcissistic and hurtful.
and yes, 'bullying' is another good one to add to her list. these
things don't usually change without some kind of intervention.

dex will probably 'love' jenni the same way he 'loved' courtney. and,
if jenni's got any sense of self preservation, she knows this on some
level. only when she and dex finally break up will she be able to
assess all that he's taken from her over the years. all that she's
given to him and all that she's thrown away, including her time, her
money and her fan base.

diana

Post by Jim Kennedy
Saw the news story that Jennicam was going to end. Came across some of the
history and the controversy of Jenni stealing her friend's boy friend. This
type of behavior is more common than one would think. In general woman view
relationships as very important. In fact the relationship is often more
important than the quality of the relationship. Unlike guys, women will
express their anger via relationship manipulation. It is also a way to
control other people. Usually this type of female aggression starts before
high school, peaks in high school and becomes less prevalent after college.
So for Jeni to steal her "friend's" boyfriend, have sex with him right in
front of her.(basically on the web, in a house right next to her "friend")
This behavior is typical , albeit magnified, female bullying. (most
people don't do things like that on that scale)
My guess is that Jenni's relationship with her friend has ended, Dex is
tired of being an exhibitionist. He probably loves her and told her to turn
off the cameras or I'm moving out.
For more information on female aggression read Odd Girl Out by Rachel
Simmons.
Jim

[privacy.at Anonymous Remailer]

Post by diana lyster
also, dex must have loved courtney at some point.

Dex loved Courtney until he saw the size of Jenni's...
BANK ACCOUNTS.

Dex is load. The sooner Jenni figures that out the better
for Jenni. But I think that Jenni really is white trash. I'll bet
in five years she's living in West Virginia with a boat load
of kids, a ford on blocks in the front yard and a drunk for
a husband who is never home.

[Markie]

If you think about, you'll see that Dex and Jenni are actually perfect
for each other.

On Mon, 5 Jan 2004 23:18:31 +0100 (CET), "privacy.at Anonymous

Post by privacy.at Anonymous Remailer

Post by diana lyster
also, dex must have loved courtney at some point.

Dex loved Courtney until he saw the size of Jenni's...
BANK ACCOUNTS.
Dex is load. The sooner Jenni figures that out the better
for Jenni. But I think that Jenni really is white trash. I'll bet
in five years she's living in West Virginia with a boat load
of kids, a ford on blocks in the front yard and a drunk for
a husband who is never home.

[Janet WV]

Post by Markie
If you think about, you'll see that Dex and Jenni are actually perfect
for each other.
On Mon, 5 Jan 2004 23:18:31 +0100 (CET), "privacy.at Anonymous

Post by privacy.at Anonymous Remailer

Post by diana lyster
also, dex must have loved courtney at some point.

Dex loved Courtney until he saw the size of Jenni's...
BANK ACCOUNTS.
Dex is load. The sooner Jenni figures that out the better
for Jenni. But I think that Jenni really is white trash. I'll bet
in five years she's living in West Virginia with a boat load
of kids, a ford on blocks in the front yard and a drunk for
a husband who is never home.

WHOA WHOA WHOA!!! WV girl here! I am a well edjumacated nurse person
who is married to a semi drunk who works a lot. My Ford is a Mustang
that runs very well thank you very much! BTW, I only have two yard
apes. Medicaid cuts you off at two now, just like in China.

All kidding aside, I really am from WV. Just couldn't resist
retaliation for the slam.

I just started watching Jennicam after all the big courtney/dex/jenni
drama, so I was clueless until just very recently. I didn't really
get into it that much, and hardly read the journals. Just found this
website too. You are all a very interesting bunch I must say. I have
been silently reading, but not replying until tonite. If anyone cares
what I think, I will miss Jennicam. Can't exactly explain why,
though. I guess it's just the voyeur in all of us. The sex kind of
revolted me, but still I enjoyed peeping in on someone elses life.

Janet